AI notice what is wrong with their argument✓ BI try to understand how they arrived there✓ CI think of evidence supporting my position✓ DI ask questions✓ EIt depends on the subject✓

APoint out what seems inconsistent✓ BListen to the experience behind their view✓ CExplain why I see it differently✓ DAsk what I might be missing✓ EConsider how close we are and what they need✓

AA clearer argument✓ BA better understanding of their feelings✓ CEvidence that supports my position✓ DA question that opens things up✓ EA pause to judge whether to continue✓